Make Some Noise!

I always get a kick out of positive feedback during sex. As in the noisy, moaning, groaning and swearing kind of feedback. It’s when pleasure and pain collide; it’s that tug-of-war between wanting more and can’t take it anymore. It’s a bigger turn on for me to see a partner almost dying of pleasure, his head ping-ponging this way and that, his hands almost clawing my back. And afterwards, the sound of him panting and catching his breath is the equivalent of a standing ovation to my ears. I remember this 18-year old (or so he said) who told me in between gasps, “Wow, you almost killed me there.” I had to stop myself from diving on him again just to finish the, ah, job.

Practice makes perfect.